TH: People often mix terms like confidence, self esteem and self revaluation. That´s the reason why there are more downfalls than takeoffs. Reviewing our skills objectively is harder than establishing world wide peace...
TH: Let´s all agree that this world is not only black and white. Even if you´re colorblind you can still smell more than two scients and even if your nose is not working, you can feel materials in your hand. Again- not only two. This world is a mixture of phenomenons that create our lives. Let´s try not to forget about it.
TH: Nothing you´ll ever learn about people is generally applicable and nobody´s perosnality is fix. Every one of us is original. The more people you meet, the more patterns you know. The more people meet you, the more their patterns change. Do not destroy their personality. You are not the one to change them.
TH:,,Give me a fix point and I´ll move the world" (Archimedes). Give people a fix point and they will move their attitude.
TH: Def. A: You can truly love just ONE person AT A TIME. You can be good friends with up to THREE people AT THE SAME TIME. You are able to LAST in your life even if you don´t have ANY of these...
Def. B: ...but you would never LIVE without the OTHER ONES that you don´t know yet, because some of them are here to change your life in the future and fix your MISSING PARTS in the definition ,,A". This moves your life further and further...
FACTS:
Everytime you talk to somebody, the other person thinks at least once of somebody else he knows. Often of somebody you both know. It´s coded in our brain and is a system of social verifcation.
Each person has 5-7 ,,social grouops" into which he or she ,,stores" every new person he or she gets to know.
Friendship is a kind of love. It is connected with our sexual and social preferences but does not secrete hormones that are conected with sexual apetite.
(Freud)
Once you fell in love with somebody, you can´t restore friendship. Even if love is over. (Freud)
You are ticklish only with people that you feel comforable with. Strangers trying to tickle you are evaluated in the brain as an attack.
When you dream, the brain grades your worries and your desires with the things you really ,,live in". We only dream of what we know. In general, this system prevents psychosis.
Dreams are not about what they are about. Thinking of the meaning during the day is a part of the system that keeps our brains sane.
,,Sleeping together" was not ment as having sexual intercourse. In early days, when human race was developing, sleeping with somebody was the highest level of trust, because in sleep you are vulnerable with all your weak points in reach.
People keep on losing their abilities due to evolution and technological progress. In fact we are getting stupid. Social skills disappear the fastest,
You can only remember 3 or 4 things at a time. Other information just flies through the brain.
If a person finds you attractive he keeps on copying your moves, style and actions even if he or she doesn´t notice it.
When people introduce themselves to you, you keep on thinking of saying your name. This is beacuse you want to make good first impression. Brain is set up to take first impression as crucial. That why you focus on saying yours correctly.
You are learing faster when you read a text from above. When you read a text on a PC screen or in a vertically positioned book, only 40% of your brain catches information.
When you draw because you want to describe something, you draw things from side. When you draw beacuse you want to give instructions, you draw from above. Things you see from the side are easier to remember.
No one can multi-task. You can only switch focus. This also happens when you talk to people.
You want more information about things that you can actually process in your brain. If you had just the information you need, your brain would be unsatisfied.
Four main all day focuses: SEX, FOOD, FEELINGS, DANGER. This is kept in our brains from the very beginning. It is the square of survival.
People that like your company talk to you with their feet pointing towards you. They also look at you even if you are talking to somebody else instead of that ,,somebody".
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